Ohhh, if there ever was a topic I’ve earned a PhD in, it’s this one. My love wounds began in utero—yes, you read that right—and continued on through the years, lingering long after the scars were formed. Healing has been a journey, but it’s also been a revelation. I’ve come to see that we all carry romantic wounds. Many of us act without even realizing that these deep, raw wounds are pulling the strings in our love lives.
So, what exactly are romantic wounds, and how can we heal them? How can we alchemize these painful experiences and return them to their original form: unconditional love? This is where the magic happens—turning wounds into wisdom and shining like the radiant goddess you were always meant to be. As Rumi said, “The wound is the place where the light enters you.”
Let the light of awareness shine on your hidden fears and insecurities, lighting up the darkest parts of you. This is the first step toward healing. Denial might feel like a sexy shield, protecting you from uncomfortable truths, but darling, that armor gets heavy. It’s time to let it go.
Here’s the thing, though—most coaches will tell you that healing means digging deep into traumas, dragging you back through the mud, and charging you more money than you’d spend on a luxury vacation. I know, I know, worst business plan in history, right? Hahaha! But truth is, I don’t want you with me forever. I want to get you to a place where you’re celebrating your love with your man as fast as possible.
What I teach is multi-dimensional, and trust me, it’s speedy. We don’t need to relive old wounds or go backward. Instead, we dive into a fun, sexy, and high-vibe process that gets results. The best part? Most of the tools I share with you are things God already gifted you—free, accessible, and ready for you to use. It’s not about feeling awful. It’s about feeling alive again, learning to trust yourself, and embracing the love that’s waiting for you.
I work with women who come to me frustrated, wondering why they keep attracting unaligned men. They think I’ll give them the perfect one-liner to text a guy, and boom—relationship fixed. But honey, the real magic isn’t in a text message—it’s in healing those romantic wounds and building a foundation of self-love first.
Until we do that work, we’ll keep seeking love in the wrong places, finding ourselves stuck in patterns that no longer serve us. Healing begins when we turn inward, embrace our insecurities, and stop apologizing for the powerful, radiant beings we are. The wound might have caused you pain, but it’s also the gateway to a love deeper than you’ve ever imagined.
Are you ready to open that door and step into the most seductive, joyful version of yourself? Because once you do, love doesn’t just show up—it floods in, and we’re going to have some fun getting there!!!